The true test of sexual control

Noelle Khalila NicollsPrayer Book

Dear Steele: If I told you that there was a type of kung fu women practice using their sex organs you would probably think I was misinformed. It might conjure up some bizarre images of deadly seductions or Asian bondage or something. It certainly wouldn’t bring to mind images of an ancient practice of healing and regeneration.

Well last month I wondered about the euphoria before the orgasm and whether it was possible to convert that sexual energy into other forms of energy, like passion for work, or love of the other, or healing for our bodies. Well this month I found my answer. There is a way to do it called Ovarian Kung Fu.

For the Taoist, sexual energy is one of the most potent forms of energy because it can be transformed into a higher spiritual energy and can be a means to attaining rejuvenation. Women contain a lot of life-force energy in their ovaries and sex organs, which is not difficult to comprehend seeing that it is the same energy that produces babies. Unlike men, who it is thought lose most of their principal energy through ejaculation, women lose most of their principal energy through menstruation. A woman’s sexual energy, or yin essence, on the other hand is thought to be a vital source of healing energy.

If you combine kung fu, which actually means intense work, discipline or putting time into practice, with the controlled channeling of sexual energy in a woman’s body, you get Ovarian Kung Fu: the process by which a woman can recycle sexual energy in her body and transform it into spiritual energy that can be stored and bring healing and increased vitality. 

It was certainly an act of divine intervention that I happened upon this random book, Healing Love through the Tao: Cultivating Female Sexual Energy. Let me tell you how serious these people are. They teach men how to draw out the yin essence from a woman’s sexual fluids through the pores of his penis; this is seen as the secret to immortality.

In ancient China, they have this story about an emperor who was seeking sex advice from one of his sages. The prospective sage would have to succeed in a test to prove his aptitude in sexual control. “He did this by offering the would-be advisor a full glass of wine and demanding that the sage insert his penis into it. If he was truly a master, he would be able to absorb the wine into his penis and then release it back into the wine glass.”

Trust me, when I say we have become so unimaginative when it comes to sexuality. No wonder we have so many problems that all tie back to the way we think about sex. There is so much knowledge out there and we are completely ignorant. Thank you for sending the book my way. As my friend ‘Obi’ would say, it was supremely interesting.